How about a new post?
I don't know about you.. but I am so bored with the MWOP haters.
I keep this open for anyone who still would like a place to speak their mind and not be attacked by the bullies, for me...I could care less anymore.
My life is full and I have no room for the haters.
Enjoy!
Sunday, February 17, 2013
Sunday, December 2, 2012
Sorry...
Sorry about being absent so much.
Life has been really, really busy!
Holidays always seem to sneak up and catch me by surprise.
My thoughts on what has been going on:
* MWOP is a BULLY SITE plain and simple
* Anja stepping away has allowed a FREE FOR ALL
* The comments at MWOP just prove we are right and they are bullies
* Glad to see Mckmama is working and earning money for her family
I figured out a long time ago that the ladies at MWOP, new and old, will never step back and see what hypocrites they are. It just will never happen. Hate breeds hate, they prove this time and time again.
If you have read as long as I have and know the history of many of the posters at MWOP, it all makes perfect sense. These are people who have money problems, bankruptcy, abuse, deadbeat baby daddies, marriage problems, no jobs and live hand to mouth...they are jealous! This isn't about Mckmama and her blog anymore, it is all about jealous angry people who are miserable in their own personal life so they vent their anger and frustration on Mckmama. If their personal friends and family read what they wrote on MWOP they would never write the comments they do. This is why they are so worried about their identities being discovered. This is how they make themselves feel better.
This is the season of giving and finding peace. I hope the ladies at MWOP can step away from Mckmama's life, since it is her life, and put 50% of their focus on their own families. We all are only responsible for our own actions and spending even a few minutes a day on Mckmama means you are taking away from your own children.
Happy Holidays and Peace To All
Life has been really, really busy!
Holidays always seem to sneak up and catch me by surprise.
My thoughts on what has been going on:
* MWOP is a BULLY SITE plain and simple
* Anja stepping away has allowed a FREE FOR ALL
* The comments at MWOP just prove we are right and they are bullies
* Glad to see Mckmama is working and earning money for her family
I figured out a long time ago that the ladies at MWOP, new and old, will never step back and see what hypocrites they are. It just will never happen. Hate breeds hate, they prove this time and time again.
If you have read as long as I have and know the history of many of the posters at MWOP, it all makes perfect sense. These are people who have money problems, bankruptcy, abuse, deadbeat baby daddies, marriage problems, no jobs and live hand to mouth...they are jealous! This isn't about Mckmama and her blog anymore, it is all about jealous angry people who are miserable in their own personal life so they vent their anger and frustration on Mckmama. If their personal friends and family read what they wrote on MWOP they would never write the comments they do. This is why they are so worried about their identities being discovered. This is how they make themselves feel better.
This is the season of giving and finding peace. I hope the ladies at MWOP can step away from Mckmama's life, since it is her life, and put 50% of their focus on their own families. We all are only responsible for our own actions and spending even a few minutes a day on Mckmama means you are taking away from your own children.
Happy Holidays and Peace To All
Monday, November 5, 2012
Out With The Old...In With The New
Hello to all who have stuck around.
I'm back and trying to get back to a normal life.
Lots of new changes have happened since I left. Many that I think are for the best.
Happy to see the BK is over, man you can only beat that dog for so long before it becomes boring! I always felt the MWOPers would be crushed when it didn't end with Mckmama in a striped orange jump suit. I'm happy to hear it didn't end with that result, I never thought it would.
The new MWOP is exactly what I thought it would be. New mods and over the top behavior, name calling and making fun of someones appearance. Anyone notice Anja is long gone? I'm pretty sure the threat of lawsuit was the reasoning behind changing the name and location to Australia for the server. No lawyer here, but does that really exclude you from the laws of slander or libel if the laws were broken while the blog was located in the USA at the time? Don't know and really don't care.
Also I noticed many have changed their screen names at MWOP. Sounds like many are running and trying to hide. What I find funny is they can run, but they can't hide. I took a look and without even looking at the CURRENT screen name, I could tell who wrote the comment. Might be a different name but the voice is the same.
Thanks to everyone for making Mels job easy while I was gone. The number of nasty comments was at an all time low. I really appreciate that all of you kept it classy.
I'm back and trying to get back to a normal life.
Lots of new changes have happened since I left. Many that I think are for the best.
Happy to see the BK is over, man you can only beat that dog for so long before it becomes boring! I always felt the MWOPers would be crushed when it didn't end with Mckmama in a striped orange jump suit. I'm happy to hear it didn't end with that result, I never thought it would.
The new MWOP is exactly what I thought it would be. New mods and over the top behavior, name calling and making fun of someones appearance. Anyone notice Anja is long gone? I'm pretty sure the threat of lawsuit was the reasoning behind changing the name and location to Australia for the server. No lawyer here, but does that really exclude you from the laws of slander or libel if the laws were broken while the blog was located in the USA at the time? Don't know and really don't care.
Also I noticed many have changed their screen names at MWOP. Sounds like many are running and trying to hide. What I find funny is they can run, but they can't hide. I took a look and without even looking at the CURRENT screen name, I could tell who wrote the comment. Might be a different name but the voice is the same.
Thanks to everyone for making Mels job easy while I was gone. The number of nasty comments was at an all time low. I really appreciate that all of you kept it classy.
Sunday, September 30, 2012
FAQ....
I really don't have the time or the energy to answer the numerous questions I get in the comments and via email so how about a FAQ post?
I get the question time and time again How do you get to travel so much?
Well that is because my children live out of state from us. It's hundreds of miles away from me and when we started traveling for my husband's job, we promised we would never go a month between visits. We never miss a birthday or special event and we spend all major holidays together. Family has always been the most important thing for us and always will be.
We also travel lots for work. I can now go on business trips because I have no small children at home.
Why do you write the Bully Blog?
If you have not been here from the beginning, go back and read the first post. The short version is that I was once a Mwoper on the original Mwop, I had issues with a few things Mckmama did but once they were corrected I never felt the need to nitpick every little thing. I was the person who spoke up when I thought people were over the top and I was attacked for my views. I was bullied for taking up for another person and the MOB attacked me. I stood up to them and I have never backed down. Bullies work in a pack, I provide a safe place people can voice their opinion and not be attacked by the MOB or bullies.
If MWoP goes away will you take your blog down?
I would love to longer have a need for this blog. As you can tell I hardly comment, I only make new post a few times a month or as needed. I will always leave the blog up but I would love for MWoP to go away and then I could spend the time I spend here on other fun projects.
Why don't you post about anything in your real life on this blog?
I have a personal blog for my family and friends. Now that we travel so much it is the easiest way to keep in touch. I don't feel the need to post personal stuff here. My family and friends read this blog and comment from time to time. Even my husband reads this blog, actually he was the reason I started this blog. You see defending yourself to bullies is pointless. I tried and instead of allowing the MOB bullies to continue to attack he said start your own blog and they can't control that, so I did. Best advice and so glad I listened to him. Thanks hubby xoxo
Do you think you have made a difference?
Yes. Look how many bullies have gone away. Look how many forums have gone private. Look at the TOU at MWoP, sure didn't have anything like that on any of the other Mwop sites. At least Anja tries to control them now.
Do you think you have given any knowledge that has helped other bloggers protect themselves on the web?
I know I have. I learned so much over the last 6 or 7 years and I have had so many ladies write and say thanks for sharing. Just using a different email address when signing up to comment has helped so many people. Many never realized how this email follows you all over the net. I also believe many who commented used their IRL names and came to realize how this was probably not a wise choice on the web.
What is the most important thing you have learned from writing a bully blog?
I never knew how mean and hateful people could be online. I never believed that people could type and publish such awful things online. I have seen it all, but it has only made me stronger. Don't believe everything you read online.
Why do you moderate comments?
Read the above answer and this should explain.
The next month is jam packed for me so my sweet friend will be taking care of the blog. Please be nice and no foul language. I've told Mel I will not even have time to look over things.. so if your comment is not posted, you will know why. I'm off for a golfing adventure, girls weekend, family birthday out of state, and SIL get together so I really, really will not be around.
Wouldn't it be nice if I came back in November and MWoP was gone and Mckmama would be a thing of the past!!!!!! You just never know..
I get the question time and time again How do you get to travel so much?
Well that is because my children live out of state from us. It's hundreds of miles away from me and when we started traveling for my husband's job, we promised we would never go a month between visits. We never miss a birthday or special event and we spend all major holidays together. Family has always been the most important thing for us and always will be.
We also travel lots for work. I can now go on business trips because I have no small children at home.
Why do you write the Bully Blog?
If you have not been here from the beginning, go back and read the first post. The short version is that I was once a Mwoper on the original Mwop, I had issues with a few things Mckmama did but once they were corrected I never felt the need to nitpick every little thing. I was the person who spoke up when I thought people were over the top and I was attacked for my views. I was bullied for taking up for another person and the MOB attacked me. I stood up to them and I have never backed down. Bullies work in a pack, I provide a safe place people can voice their opinion and not be attacked by the MOB or bullies.
If MWoP goes away will you take your blog down?
I would love to longer have a need for this blog. As you can tell I hardly comment, I only make new post a few times a month or as needed. I will always leave the blog up but I would love for MWoP to go away and then I could spend the time I spend here on other fun projects.
Why don't you post about anything in your real life on this blog?
I have a personal blog for my family and friends. Now that we travel so much it is the easiest way to keep in touch. I don't feel the need to post personal stuff here. My family and friends read this blog and comment from time to time. Even my husband reads this blog, actually he was the reason I started this blog. You see defending yourself to bullies is pointless. I tried and instead of allowing the MOB bullies to continue to attack he said start your own blog and they can't control that, so I did. Best advice and so glad I listened to him. Thanks hubby xoxo
Do you think you have made a difference?
Yes. Look how many bullies have gone away. Look how many forums have gone private. Look at the TOU at MWoP, sure didn't have anything like that on any of the other Mwop sites. At least Anja tries to control them now.
Do you think you have given any knowledge that has helped other bloggers protect themselves on the web?
I know I have. I learned so much over the last 6 or 7 years and I have had so many ladies write and say thanks for sharing. Just using a different email address when signing up to comment has helped so many people. Many never realized how this email follows you all over the net. I also believe many who commented used their IRL names and came to realize how this was probably not a wise choice on the web.
What is the most important thing you have learned from writing a bully blog?
I never knew how mean and hateful people could be online. I never believed that people could type and publish such awful things online. I have seen it all, but it has only made me stronger. Don't believe everything you read online.
Why do you moderate comments?
Read the above answer and this should explain.
The next month is jam packed for me so my sweet friend will be taking care of the blog. Please be nice and no foul language. I've told Mel I will not even have time to look over things.. so if your comment is not posted, you will know why. I'm off for a golfing adventure, girls weekend, family birthday out of state, and SIL get together so I really, really will not be around.
Wouldn't it be nice if I came back in November and MWoP was gone and Mckmama would be a thing of the past!!!!!! You just never know..
Tuesday, September 25, 2012
Is The Snake Dead Now?
With the latest news of Mckmama making the decision to shut down her blog I have to wonder if the Snake Is Dead? The Snake being Mwop. How will they justify their actions of stalking, harassing and libel if Mckmama is no longer a "Public Figure"? Remember they claim Mckmama being a "Public Figure" allows them to do what they do.
Now if this is true and Mckmama is no longer a "Public Figure", no longer a blogger who puts herself out there, then it should be true: THE SNAKE IS DEAD. Mckmama cut the head off the snake by taking away her blog for them to tear apart.
Good job Mckmama for dropping the blog. Really I believe it is Mckmama taking the power and showing MWOP who is boss. I'm happy to see a family back together and wish Mckmama all the best!
MWOP move on, just like Mckmama is doing. THE SNAKE IS DEAD!!!
Now if this is true and Mckmama is no longer a "Public Figure", no longer a blogger who puts herself out there, then it should be true: THE SNAKE IS DEAD. Mckmama cut the head off the snake by taking away her blog for them to tear apart.
Good job Mckmama for dropping the blog. Really I believe it is Mckmama taking the power and showing MWOP who is boss. I'm happy to see a family back together and wish Mckmama all the best!
MWOP move on, just like Mckmama is doing. THE SNAKE IS DEAD!!!
Friday, September 21, 2012
mckprisonbound
This comment was left on Mwop by mckprisonbound..
Mckprisonbound no one on this site is giving out your name. You yourself posted your real name on Snort's blog and Snort gave the information that you are mckprisonbound. I received a comment with the copies showing your real name and the reference by Snort from someone who is on Mwop and was sick to find out you were mckprisonbound and the one leaving the horrible comments about Mckmama and her children. I did not post the comment. You are not the only person with the name Lindy.
Please refrain from making false accusations about this site. You have no proof anyone from this site has left any comments on the web or website about you. This is your formal notice to cease making false statements about this blog.
Now based on viewing the comments at Mwop it appears you have been called out on numerous occasions by not only your fellow Mwopers, but also Anja for the content of your comments. I believe if any comments about you are being left on the web they could be coming from people who have already said they have a problem with your comments, you know the people who see what you post day after day.
Before you complain about someone finding out your identity you need to place blame in the correct place. You are the one who has shared all the personal information about yourself, you are the person who is posting on a blog using your REAL name and it was your very own friend who outed you on the web.
Mckprisonbound you need to contact Snort and give her the warning not this blog.
Hope that clears everything up for you..
UPDATE***
mckprisonbound it appears Anja said the same thing I did! Look in the mirror and you can see who is to blame, take ownership and stop crying like the victim. Isn't this what you say Mckmama should do?